Here's Why You Want to Stop Seeking Approval of Others

November 19, 2017

It doesn't matter if your a CEO or startup trying to make everyone happy will always end up in a disaster. 

 

 

 

Right now  am working with a new client, that is a high performer at her job, makes a great salary, and created security their with her years of experience and expertise.  In the beginning she let me know how her approval issues were stopping her from living her own truth. 
She hates her job and knows it is draining her energy.  As a result, her health was declining badly and it’s forcing her to stop working altogether and go on sick leave.  She wasn't following her path, and her body was expressing that clearly in the form of  an illness. The point I am making here is that your body will make itself sick when you are not living your purpose. 

 

I've studying the science of the mind-body connection for years and have overcome my own health challenges by understanding that illness is a feedback system to the conscious mind. 

 

The question is, are you listening to it?

 

The more people tell you to do this or don't do that start watching how you feel. 

 

Feeling like you got a  headache?
You keep getting sick with that same damn cold?
Feeling mentally blocked?

Ignore the signals and your immune system will take a detour. 

 

If you fail to pay attention to your body's feedback which is expressing it through sickness or disease you're life will start shrinking and you'll begin to resent others around you.  

 

It's your job to follow what's most inspiring to you, yet I find people can't do that easily.

 

This is a hard lesson to learn because it impacts every area of your life.

 

If you have a business, your bank account will start to drain because you're not paying attention.  You don't want to wait until it hits ZERO either.

 

Can you see that everything in your life is trying to get your attention.

There is a CAUSE and AFFECT.  

 

Part of my mission and purpose on this planet is helping people to uncover what their true mission and purpose is, take inspired action, and go to the next level of life.  What I uncover during the initial process when I am working with someone is finding out what specifically is holding them back from making more money, having better health, or aligning themselves to their true purpose. Often times I find they are trying to seek the approval of other people.  I evaluate each area of their life by using a rating system from 1-7.  A one rating means they are completely lacking in that area and seven is they are completely fulfilled.  

 

So how do you raise each area?

How do you increase your monthly income?

How do you get out of your own way?

 

I want to share with you how I do this.

 

Let's go back to my example of the current client I am working with....

 

First, I do a Personal Values Assessment to determine who that person really is.  What's interesting is most people don't know who they are...even high level CEOs that I work with have the same issues.  

 

The reason why this is critical for you to do is so you can understand how you are personally wired.

 

What makes you tick?
 

How can you achieve that $20,000 a month or more?

 

How can you stop attracting more chaos into your life?

How can you start working out and getting in top physical condition without giving in to the social or family demands?

What is really stopping you from reaching the next level?

 

This is the most incredible discovery because once you know who you are and how you're wired you can give yourself permission to be you. 

Simple, right?
Since most people are not doing this their life starts to crumble before their eyes.
 

They are wondering why that shiny marketing funnel they've created isn't converting into cash. 

 

When you give yourself permission to operate from your highest personal values you achieve the goals you want. You stop following people that give you the same crappy advice and tell you it's their way or the highway. You start seeing your life at a entirely different level. 

 

You break the illusion of how you thought you need to operate in your own life. 

 

Once you can do this, there's no stopping you!


You don't let anyone get in the way of your purpose or path. 

And because of that you're feeling inspired to do whatever it takes. 

You'll living in the flow of life instead of forcing everything to work. 

You no longer feel like you have to be a pretzel to anyone in order to fit in.

IMAGINE living a life where you design it the way that feels most aligned with you. 

What would that look like?
What would you do?
What does your perfect day look like?
How do you want your life to play out for the rest of your life?


If you're not where you want to be right now in your business or any area of life, I want you to contemplate these questions.  Stop settling and start living!

 

As for this client, I am showing her how to blaze her own trail of truth. She's learning how to go after what she specifically wants.  I am helping her to get Crystal Clear on her Vision and showing her that part of this formula is letting go of what other people think. 

 

You have one life.

Live it well.

Play full out.

 

Living your La Dolce Vita is about YOU, being true to yourself. 

 

This is the work I'm most aligned to do that helps my clients breakthrough any limitation in their life. That's why in 2018 I will be launching some breakthrough products that deal with the science of your limitations and how to go to the next level. It's a proven formula that will help you to get over yourself and start playing on a bigger scale. 

 

Anything you want, you can have it once you understand your unique formula. 

 

Here's to living your La Dolce Vita and not letting anyone or anything stand in your way!


Heather 

 

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