For over 15 years I've been studying human behavior and brain science in understanding why people do the the things they do. I've worked with all types people from entrepreneurs, CEO, and people that are looking to find their purpose. What do all of these people have in common? At every level of success they go through there's another level in which they have to reprogram their mind for success.
Even some of the most successful CEO's can have doubts and fears. That's why you should never see yourself as beneath someone.
Always see yourself as equal no matter where you are on the path of life.
First lets define what success is.
Success is not the dollar amount you reach rather it's something you define within yourself. Everyone has a set of personal values and priorities that make them tick. It's unique to you because you see the world in a different way than lets say your partner, friends, or family members.
That's why it's important to define your own rules for success and stop getting caught up in how others see it. The question you should be asking yourself is what does success look like to me?
Look at where you are at in your life and ask yourself another question...
"What is the one thing that I would love to accomplish that is in alignment with who I am?"
As we speak, my new book I am writing talks about this exact question and knowing your own formula for alignment really is ..and it has nothing to do with what anyone else is doing. When you follow it, your life will change in ways you've always dreamed about.
The key I want you to focus on is what do you really want?
You don't have to focus on a million different things either because that can be distracting it just depends on how you are currently programmed. You can actually change that too, but I like to keep things simplified.
When I am working with clients on business, first we set one simple goal that we can work on and accomplish but before we get into the strategy I might spend a few weeks just helping them realign their mind to their goal and vision.
Since I've been focusing on this piece instead of the other way around, I find that my clients are getting better results. My genius zone is understanding human behavior and showing anyone that is wanting to change their program for success. If you have a business, marketing is secondary. I don't care what magic funnel system someone is promoting because your mind will always dictate the outcome.
Want a better outcome?
Then change the internal program. It doesn't have to take years to transform yourself either. All it takes is the willingness to want to change and having the right formula to do it. This is why I LOVE helping people. It's rewarding when I can help someone get out of their own way so that they can accomplish what they set out to do. It can be with money or any area of your life. You dictate how you define success so don't limit yourself.
Speaking of defining success, this is one of the first steps you can do. I want you to define what success is to you and for the love go God, get off of Facebook when you start seeing other people brag about their success when it's making you start doubt yourself. I love celebrating other people and their success but if it starts to hinder your progress then jump out of there right now. There's nothing worse than comparing yourself to other people and minimize your own power and potential.
Now that you've defined your success, I want you to pick one goal that you feel would make you successful. Again, this is personal to you and it could be in any area of life. I've found that sometimes if you pick a different area of life then lets say your business everything else starts to shift in your life.
The next thing you do is start reverse engineering that goal to figure out what steps you need to take. Sometimes the steps will not be linear but having an overall plan is key. One of the programs in the New Year I will be launching will go into being focused and mastering high performance habits on a daily basis so stay tuned.
The next step is about reprogramming your mental state. In fact in my new book I am writing an entire chapter about changing this and it will help those people that can't seem to get out of their own way. What I want you to do is start by creating a morning routine where you are seeing yourself successful on the screen of your mind.
Practice seeing yourself successful.
I know this might sound simple but this is the biggest thing that people overlook and they skip it. You want to reinforce this image because your unconscious mind is the one running the show. Around 95% of your beliefs, habits, and behaviors come from your unconscious mind and if you fail to reprogram this part of your mind you will keep getting what you are getting. If you're in a business, and you start focusing on the marketing of the shiny object-yes you need the marketing- but this is secondary you'll find your ROI will not be as high as it could or in fact NOTHING. Invest in learning how to change the way you see yourself and you will start seeing the results on the outside.
If you're wanting to create your ideal body, you have to see yourself the way you desire. Dieting never works! I wrote an entire book about this subject on mind and body.
If you're wanting to be in the most amazing relationship than stop living in your fear and start seeing yourself with someone that loves you.
Can you now see that success starts in your mind first?
Don't believe me?
Do what I tell you to do and watch what happens. Don't do what I tell you to do and watch what happens too.
Leave a comment below and let me know what's the most challenge in reprograming yourself successful?