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How attached are you to the outcome of having something going your way when putting out your intentions?
Think about something right now that you really, really want…I mean you want it soooo bad that it has to happen.
Now, that you have that in your mind I want you to get in tune with your body to sense what you are feeling. Do you feel a tension in your shoulders? Or maybe a sinking feeling in your stomach. Really stop to see where the heavy energy shows up in your body.
Resistance is the #1 thing that keeps people stuck from manifesting their true desires in business or in life.
Let me give you a couple situations:
You are getting ready to close a deal with a client and you feel that it has to happen otherwise you won’t be able to pay your bills.
You just started dating someone and feel desperate to make it work because all the other relationships you have had in the past have failed.
You are stuck in your business and can’t figure out how to attract more clients/sales and you tell yourself if this doesn’t work nothing else will.
You are frustrated with your body and want to look and feel better but no matter what you do nothing works. The frustration sets in and you think the next thing you try has to work or you will never reach your goals.
This is resistance – thinking and feeling this way will always keep you stuck. The secret is to be in the place of letting go and allow yourself to receive.
Now, I know you are probably saying “But Heather I NEED to pay my bills”! Trust me I have been there, not knowing how I would pay my bills and feeling so much resistance I found myself digging a bigger hole.
My secret to letting go was when I learned to surrender and that’s when things turned around. I also just accepted my situation. When you can accept where you are at, miracles can and do happen. I remember years ago when my rent was due and I didn’t have the money, I started to panic. I was very fearful and started crying and beating up on myself for even being in the situation. Then in a moment I heard my inner voice saying “Let go…everything will work out,” I released some of my fear and it allowed me to open up to a soul-tion…and within a few days I was able to manifest the money. It was absolutely amazing and it taught me how to really let go in my deepest moments of fear and uncertainty.
What I love doing now is helping other entrepreneurs look into this fear, let go and show them step-by-step how to create soul-tions by one of the techniques I call a “GPS”. This process allows you to look into the fear, let go, and create a soul-tion. I use this process when things come up both in my business and personal life and it absolutely amazes me every time how easy it really is to let go.
The secret is you have to be in practice of letting go to master it. Of course I always have challenges or bumps in my life but using this process allows me to turn things around faster than ever before in my life!
My question to you is what do you fear the most right now and how can you let go?
Post your answer on my facebook page so I can help you out!
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If you find yourself feeling like there is no hope I suggest you let go and surrender.
In my deepest, darkest days I remember thinking that I didn’t even want to live.
I was so upset for what I didn’t have and living off of credit cards with feeling there
was no end in sight was very difficult for me. I kept beating myself up and asking
“How did I get here?” and “Why am I not where I want to be?”
Looking back at this situation I was in denial that I created that situation and was 100%
responsible for getting myself out of it too. It took what I like to call a MIRACLE and
a huge intention to change things around for me and my business. Not only was my business
suffering but I was in a lousy relationship as well. It definitely took a toll on me mentally, physically,
emotionally, and spiritually.
Nothing changed until…..
I met the person that could help me change. I was holding a deck of intentional cards and shuffling them in my lowest of low points not knowing where I could turn to..I just need a SIGN that everything
was going to be ok..that I could go on with my life and business..to do what I was meant to do in my lifetime. Then there it was…the card that I pulled from the deck was “This is a sign…let all your worries
go as help is on its way!” This was the exact glimmer of hope that I needed to hold on to my dreams.
About a week later I met the person that changed my life and my business forever! It took me about
3 months to transform my business to success ..this is something that I had been working on for years
and couldn’t seem to break through the barriers that were keeping me stuck no matter how many books
I read, how much I meditated..NOTHING worked. Yes, it was my miracle moment and I vowed that
I would help each entrepreneur that came across my path with my teaching and coaching system.
Here’s what I realized:
You can’t change what you are not aware of
You need to affirm that you want change that is for your highest good no matter what it takes.
You need to hire a coach or get into a program because if you have been stuck for this long…what do you think is really going to change?
You need to have a plan of action (this is beyond traditional goal setting..which really is ineffective..you know what I mean because you are saying “I know what to do but I am not doing it.”)
You have to forgive yourself and others so you can move forward.
Focus on CREATING MONEY not debt. Stop thinking about your debts this will only give you more lack.
I know you may owe a lot of money but you need to move past this otherwise you will get stuck in the sea of lack and drown!
You need to have something that drives you every day that will give you the fire and desire to succeed. I had 2 things. One being my intentional ring that I still wear today that says “Be true to your dreams” the other is the song by Journey called “Don’t Stop Believing.”
Heather Picken, is the founder of the Quantum Entrepreneur program that empowers entrepreneurs to release the blocks that are keeping them stuck and attract success in their business.
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I have to say that I have faced a lot of fear in so many areas of my life. Years ago I would
let my whole world crumble apart because of my fear.
Do you have a fear right now that is keeping you up at night?
I love this song by Taylor Swift…maybe it will help you release the fear just a little
bit to be fearless
What I love is what Neale Donald Walsch says of the Emotions of Fear (he puts it into perspective)
I had the great privilege of interviewing him too.
Learn to make fear your friend.
Look at your fear.
Feel your fear.
Talk to it like a friend..ask what it wants.
Many people are losing their jobs and looking to start a business. Many
people email me on how can they start a business in this economy. If
you look back even in the Depression era some businesses were thriving.
If you get caught up in the doom and gloom of the economy you will
surely find that your business will never take off.
What I suggest is you look to see how you can be different and what you
have to offer your business that others do not have. We talk about this in
my Quantum Entrepreneur Program and creating your service and heart
Here’s how you can create a magnetic business in any economy:
Find something that you love because doing a business just to make money
is always short lived.
1. Sell your passion:
2. Is there a market for you business: Make sure you do your
homework to find out if people would want your service or product.
3. Create a system: Many people are working in their business instead
of on. Focus on creating a system so your business runs on autopilot.
Hire people or do trades for things that are not your strengths.
4. Surface up the beliefs that are blocking your success: Ask
yourself what is your biggest obstacle for your success. Being aware of
these blocks is the first step to releasing them.
5. Hire a mentor and get help for direction: This was my #1 secret in
helping my business.
I remember being so stuck and even after investing thousands of dollars on
seminars and books I still was struggling. When I hired a mentor it changed
my life and no longer was I worrying about money, in fact taking that leap
allowed me to increase my business beyond what I ever thought was
possible in very little time!
Don’t let the naysayers drag you down!
If you can think it you can do it.
Start your business now and have Quantum Success!
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accelerated income or check out The Quantum Entrepreneur Program that
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In order to take a quantum leap for your business or any other
area of your life you must do the following:
- Have a radical departure from your habits
and beliefs that are NOT serving you.
Look at your behaviors and attitudes right now and
what needs to be changed. Your current behaviors
and attitudes are your biggest obstacle
that is keeping from having a Quantum Leap.
- Take action that makes you feel uncomfortable.
It is not about taking safe steps like you have been
doing now. Telling yourself you are going to do it
once you have the money will not create a Quantum
This is where people have a challenge because they
are comfortable being stuck and fearful of changing.
Look into fear and make it your friend.
- Think outside of the box. Taking leaps always comes
from looking outside of the box to soul-tions that are
always within. Give yourself some space to allow
opportunities to come to you and they will.
Why when I know the Law of Attraction rules am I still struggling for money – yes I find it difficult to ‘think’ I have it when I don’t. From Sally
I know many of you can identify with this one. The reason why you are struggling is that you may know the rules of Law of Attraction but you really don’t know them. If you did
then you would have the money right? Intellectually you know that what you think and feel attracts what you want. However, you do the total opposite which is worry about money and bills.
Imagine your subconscious mind set on a dial that says “poverty consciousness” and you want it on “wealth consciousness”. Each time you try to read about Law of Attraction and maybe have a little success and go towards the wealth consciousness point, you find yourself going backwards. Your subconscious is programmed to go back to the poverty consciousness. That is why so many people struggle with money issues. It’s a program that has a set point to fail. I know because I was there for many years and I tried everything; and nothing seemed to work until I took a quantum leap.
The quantum leap for me was making a conscious decision that I want to get unstuck
and change. I told myself I was going to do whatever it took because I was sick of going
through another year figuring out where I went wrong. I had to breakdown before I
could make a breakthrough. The best thing I did was hire a coach, along with getting
into a program that allowed me to manifest things in a way that I had never experienced! The wild thing is that once it happened I never looked back and my old poverty thinking was a distant memory of the past. The key was seeing what beliefs I had about money and my business that was keeping me stuck.
Let’s say you are telling your friends that you have an amazing business and you will be super successful… how would that make you feel right now? If you start to feel your stomach go in or an unpleasant sensation in your body – then you know you have a belief that is not serving you.
In order to change that belief… you have to be uncomfortable because it is what is required to take a quantum leap. You also may find as you make a decision to change
that everything around you is crumbling. This is actually good news, because it’s
just a phase. The secret is that you need to push through this and hold on to ride this out, otherwise you will find yourself going back to your poverty consciousness mindset
because it is familiar to you.
I have helped so many entrepreneurs make this shift and yes they went through the
same thing. Ask yourself this question… what is going to change for me if I don’t do something now? Answer — NOTHING. You have no time to waste and now is the
time to step up and step into the life that you deserve.
Want a breakthrough for your business and remove the money blocks?
Attracting prosperity is really not hard to do. What is hard is the program
most people have running 24/7 of a poverty consciousness.
We are born to be prosperous but programmed to be stuck!
Think of your brain as a thermostat that is programmed to be set a certain
temperature and every time you try to change it, it goes back to the set point.
You can’t change anything that you are not aware of.
The first thing to know in attracting prosperity is being aware of your poverty mindset.
It’s never too late to change this as your brain is very plastic (no it’s not
made out of plastic – ha!) Neuroplasticy or brain plasticity refers to the
brain’s ability to change throughout life.
You may have heard the expression “Neurons that fire together wire together.”
Anytime you learn something new and memorize it you change your brain
If you keep thinking the following:
I am in debt!
I can’t attract clients!
I don’t have the money
And of course fuel that with emotion… you have essentially wired your brain
to run a program and that is how you keep attracting lack in your life.
What can you do?
There are several things you can do to change your poverty thinking to
Stop watching the news and anything that is negative it only reinforces what
you don’t want. You may ask.., ”How do I know what is going on in the world?”
Trust me you will by others.
Create a sanctuary of prosperity around you. I have a technique that I call
Money Mapping that I teach in my Quantum Entrepreneur Program. Essentially
you want to keep things in your home that are of a high vibration since
everything is energy.
Look around your home to see if there are things that are broken, clothes
that you don’t wear anymore, then throw them out or give them away. This is
stuff that is not helping you.
Have you ever known anyone that can’t throw anything out? They are what
you call a pack rat. Look to see how their prosperity is because of this… I bet
you anything they are having problems in one area of their life, if not all!
Question what you believe.
Whatever you believe you will perceive so how do you think you will change
your situation without questioning it?
Who gave me my beliefs?
Do I really believe that?
Can I really change?
Find mentors and programs that will help you.
This was my biggest breakthrough from poverty consciousness to wealth
consciousness. I had a mentor that showed me how to activate the beliefs
and, literally overnight, my business and life changed. I tried shifting my
beliefs on my own but it really wasn’t working the way that I wanted it to.
Most people can’t get out of their own way! If you have been stuck for a year,
what makes you think you can do it on your own? It’s time to let go of your
ego and get some help, otherwise you will go into another year with the same
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Article by Anisa Aven
I love your site and your devotion to helping others manifest their dreams! I always get so excited when I get your newsletter because I know it will have some helpful hint I need that day!! I have a question about the law of attraction and manifesting. I find that I can easily manifest things I do not have a strong attachment to, but when it comes to big things, like relationships, I am not so lucky.
For years I have been hanging onto a relationship with a guy I believe to be my soul mate, only it has been a rollercoaster of emotions and feelings, some good and some bad. It is heartbreaking to me because I feel like I have all the tools to create the beautiful, romantic soul mate relationship I desire with this person but I can’t seem to get it right. I know I cannot control his feelings but am I wrong to think that the law of attraction can help this situation? I know I should just focus on the relationship I desire instead of the face it comes with, but I feel so strongly attached to this person and want to experience the love I desire with him. Any insight you have would be so much appreciated. Thanks for all you do!
Thank you for your kind words, Erin.
When we focus on what we want, what we desire, we send forth an energetic signal that is creative. However, that signal is not vibrationally aligned with what we say we want but instead it is aligned with ‘the longing’ for what we want. Desire is a descending emotion filled with longing, an intense wish for something that we feel separate from.
It’s the experience of separation that prevents us from intentionally creating. As long as we feel separate from the essence of our desire, we vibrate in opposition to it.
“You can’t have what you want.” – God, in A Conversation with God by Neale Donald Walsch
You have to change your ‘wanting’ to ‘accepting’.
The ‘trick’ to re-creating a relationship is to be willing to never have that relationship be that which you say you want. Instead you must be willing to focus on the experience of love and fulfillment that is the essence of your true desire.
This translates to sheer willingness to accept whatever is, as exactly what’s meant to be. It means being willing to let this relationship go; and to be willing to accept it exactly as it is, as perfect in and of itself, even if it never changes.
From this willingness, your thoughts soften and a greater sense of tranquility will prevail. Within this state of mind lies the energetic framework required to inspire and attract the real relationship you want, the essence of your real desire.
The framework I’m referring to is an intention to unconditionally love and accept your partner exactly as they are, filled with the wonder of life as one of God’s perfect Divine souls.
For as you send forth real love and light, you free their inner being to return the love.
From The 72 Names of God, by Yehuda Berg:
“You must offer unconditional love and true light to your friends and even those you see as enemies if you want to receive peace and serenity in your own life. You must see the soul of the other person and connect to it.
The key to this Universal law is the offering of true light and unconditional kindness. The reason is, unconditional love and authentic light immediately penetrate the soul of the other party, awakening love and light in return.”
Now, you’ll notice that I used the word ‘trick’ above because that’s exactly what you’re doing. You are tricking your thoughts into a place of greater vibrational illumination.
Of course, there are times when it’s simply more comfortable to move away from what is than to re-create it. Re-creating a relationship, a job, or a health issue, for example, when we are steeped in the diagnosis of ‘the way that it is’ requires a great deal of courage, attention, intention, time, and faith.
I won’t say that I haven’t taken the easier road at times because I have. When my children’s doctor didn’t believe in naturopathic options, I didn’t try to ‘re-create’ that relationship; I didn’t use the law of attraction to inspire him to come around.
In this situation the path of least resistance was simply finding a doctor that was more aligned with my family’s beliefs.
Long standing relationships will be more challenging to re-create because of their ‘story’; because the relationship has so much history and evidence to prove it is the way it is.
My current relationship is the best I’ve ever had. I feel madly in love, cherished, cared for, and passionate about our future. When he’s away, I can’t wait for him to get home.
My brother borrowed him for two weekends in a row to help build a storage shed. (Unfortunately, people are always borrowing my honey because he’s pretty crafty with a hammer.) By the 2nd weekend, I was a little pest calling them both and whining, “When are you going to be done? What about me?!?!”
My brother said, “I didn’t know you were that needy!?!” I just giggled because the truth is I’m the furthest thing from needy but I did miss my honey! This is a very fresh and very good feeling.
It wasn’t always this way, however. My honey and I have a history of power struggles. At one point I threw up my hands and said, “I’m done! I just don’t want this anymore.”
This was the precise moment when I was able to re-create the relationship. To tell you the truth, I thought at the time I’d have to let him go. I thought it would be easier to start over than to re-create this one. And, I was willing.
However, I focused on willingness, acceptance, love, and hope instead.
Then, as if by magic, the relationship turned into the most special love of my life.
Another point I’d like to briefly discuss is one’s attachment to the ‘idea’ about how a relationship should look. Recently a friend emailed that her partner said, “I’m just not good at relationships and marriage just doesn’t suit me.”
She wants marriage and he doesn’t. When resistance to the relationship comes in the form of resistance to the ‘structure’ of the relationship, you will want to consider whether it’s the ‘form’ or the ‘love’ that is the most important.
It’s okay to want marriage and if your partner doesn’t want that, you may have to let them go. Or, you may find that it’s easier and more aligned with what you want to let go of the ‘form’ and love the relationship and your mate exactly as they are. Remember, millions of couples are happily (and permanently) coupled without the ‘form’ of marriage.
If you want to re-create a relationship, inspire it to be all that you desire, you must start with that willingness that I mentioned above. Then send forth such a great deal of unconditional love and acceptance that the light from your heart transforms the situation.
At some point there will be a fork in the road; an opportunity to stay because it’s obvious that you can use the power of love to support the relationship you want or an opportunity to let it go. In spite of your love for your mate, it will become obvious that it would be easier to accept them as they are and let them go than to change them (and your thoughts about them).
Your intentional unconditional love and acceptance will either inspire the relationship to new heights of adoration or you will become acutely aware of the relationship’s incapacity to give anymore than it’s already giving.
At this point, you won’t be able to judge them for being the way they are. Instead, you will honor the Divine within them and trust that the Universal spirit is guiding you to a better relationship once you let this one go.
Either way, you will experience a peaceful resolve first. This will be your cue that you are indeed aligned with the wonderful love you desire.
EFT & LOA:
If you know EFT, here are a few set-ups that can support you in obtaining that place of willingness:
Even though, we have too much history for me to imagine something greater,
Even though, I’m afraid to let this relationship go
Even though, I don’t know how to make this relationship work
Even though, I don’t want to accept this relationship as it is because then I feel like I’m settling
IE: I’m afraid of settling.
OE: I would rather fight than to give in.
UE: I don’t want to be alone.
BN: I don’t have what it takes to make this relationship work.
Ch: They don’t love me enough to make this relationship work.
CB: I’m afraid I’ll never get what I want from this relationship.
UA: I want so badly to have a wonderful relationship with this partner; I’m not willing to let this go.
RR: This fear that I will end up alone and starting over.
CC: This pain that I feel when I think about letting this go and the pain I feel when I think about settling with what is.
IE: What if I could have the relationship of my dreams?
OE: What if buy loving unconditionally I could inspire the love I desire?
UE: I choose to be willing to love unconditionally.
BN: I choose to be willing to let this relationship go, if that’s what’s meant to be.
Ch: I choose to be at peace with what is, even if I never get what I want.
CB: What if I felt willing and open to giving and receiving wonderful love.
UA: I’m willing to love and to let go of my attachment to what I want.
RR: I’m willing to accept my partner exactly as they are.
CC: I command love, faith, openness, hopefulness, and peace to fill my heart and I am grateful to now give fully from this place of love.
Learn more about Attracting Love here
by Jim Francis
Many see coincidences as embedded in a higher, transcendental force, a cosmic “glue,” as it were, which binds random events together in a meaningful and coherent pattern. The question has always been: could such a harmonizing principle actually exist?
Or are skeptics right in regarding this as a product of wishful thinking, a consoling myth spawned by the intellectual discomfort and capriciousness of chance?
Mathematician Warren Weaver, in his book, Lady Luck: The Theory of Probability, recounts a fascinating tale of coincidence that stretches our traditional notions of chance to their breaking point.
The story originally appeared in Life magazine. Weaver writes:
All fifteen members of a church choir in Beatrice, Nebraska, due at practice at 7:20, were late on the evening of March 1, 1950.
The minister and his wife and daughter had one reason (his wife delayed to iron the daughter’s dress); one girl waited to finish a geometry problem; one couldn’t start her car; two lingered to hear the end of an especially exciting radio program; one mother and daughter were late because the mother had to call the daughter twice to wake her from a nap; and so on.
The reasons seemed rather ordinary, but there were ten separate and quite unconnected reasons for the lateness of the fifteen persons. It was rather fortunate that none of the fifteen arrived on time at 7:20, for at 7:25 the church building was destroyed in an explosion.
The members of the choir, Life reported, wondered if their delay was “an act of God.” Weaver calculates the staggering odds against chance for this uncanny event as about one chance in a million.
Coincidences such as these, some say, are almost too purposeful, too orderly, to be a product of random chance, which strains somewhat to accommodate them. But then how do we explain them?
Another definition for SYNCHRONICITY:
Synchronicity at this point can be defined as a series of seemingly unrelated events which are connected via a hidden agenda.
The recent publication of the SUPERSTRING theory indicates that there may well be ten dimensions in existence, not merely the four that ones senses are currently aware of (Length, breadth, width, time).
There is now considerable mathematical proof to indicate that ten dimensions exist. And most quantum physicists have given serious consideration to this theory. It would appear that the “hidden agenda” of synchronistic events may be transparent and obvious in one or more of these ten dimensions, but become opaque and difficult to fathom when viewed in our current restricted four dimensions.
And there is now, at last, a small amount of evidence to indicate that when an individual’s subconscious mind-set is modified to encourage positive PK synchronistic events (luck) then synchronistic elements may be set into play which materialistic as PK Luck events in our “real time” dimension.
And conversely, when a person becomes aware of a series of synchronistic events they can use this special knowledge to trigger a burst of luck.
What has been definitely proven, however, is that the mind-set of an individual influences their interaction with the environment, to an extent which can leave a person “stunned” at the positive results.
What I have discovered over the past 4 years is that if I call up a dream program to “induce” synchronistic events in my waking life… then instruct my mind to consciously recognize these events as a synchronistic train… I can usually recognize where they are leading to and be there at the right time and place to take advantage of them.
I have personally had at least a dozen of these recognizable synchronicity trains in the past 3 years and each one has bought me sometimes quite incredible luck. So much so that friends here in Vanuatu keep telling me how lucky I am!!
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by Heather Picken
There is something called Universal Laws and if you follow them, you will be
amazed how your life will change.
Here are a few that I think you will find interesting.
The Law of Attraction - Most of you have heard about this law. Essentially, what you
are putting out there with your feelings and thoughts you will attract. The interesting thing about this law is it says that desire without expectation is merely wishing for something that isn’t going to come true. If you are wishing for what you want, understand that you are pushing your intention away. On the flip side, if you keep thinking about what you don’t want you will manifest more of that into your reality.
Tip – Affirm that what you want to attract is already on it’s way. Always focus
on what you want, not what you don’t want!
The Law of Receiving - In order to get what you want you have to give first. Many people will want to wait and receive before they give which is not using this law correctly, and of course will backfire.
Tip – If you want more, start by tipping extra or putting $1 in the Starbucks
The Law of Sacrifice – If you want to be the best athlete or have a successful business you must work with this law. Let’s say you want to start a business and
you tell yourself that you don’t have the time; you do not understand that
self mastery and discipline is a must. Taking the time out to plant the seeds
will eventually yield success but you must sacrifice your time in order to
make if happen.
Tip – Create the time and space. Remind yourself how The Law of Sacrifice will
pay off by disciplining yourself.