Are you telling yourself that you can’t do it? Do you find yourself getting excited about your business, but then you stop because something happens to steer you off your course? If this is your situation, then you are not alone. I have come up with three easy steps that will help you to get back on track and into creating more prosperity and joy for your business.
Self-sabotage shows up in many ways. Trust me when I say that I have been through it so I know how challenging it can be. If you are like many passionate and driven women entrepreneurs,you might feel stuck and want to throw in the towel when things don’t work out as planned. It’s easy to give up, but this is the wrong mindset to have, and if you give up, then you just become like everyone else. You are here to fulfill your life’s purpose; in order to do that you have to realize and be OK with things not always working out 100% of time. The good news is that you can turn around any situation and actually have it work out better than you ever imagined. Self-sabotage is the number one all-time dream crusher that will disempower you and your business. I want you to be successful, so here are three ways to help you overcome your inner saboteur.
1.Delete your old ways of seeing yourself. When you see yourself as not being able to attract your first client or first six figures in your business, you recreate that pattern of self-sabotage. When you deletethe old images of failing, it will help you to create the space to hold new images of success. Imagine if you were to go shopping for a new wardrobe and your closet is so full with old clothes that don’t fit or are so outdated that you can’t possibly put your new clothes in there until you do some cleaning up. It’s important to go through all the old images and stories,and then address them as they come up.If you really want to immerse yourself and be open for more prosperity,then write down all of your negative images that you see about yourself that are not serving you, and create new visions of success.
2. Stop comparing your success to other people in your industry. If you are one of those people who are checking out other people’s websites and feeling overwhelmed because you feel that are not there yet, then you immediately need to stop. Comparing yourself to others in your industry is an energy drain. In fact, it takes you out of your focus and flow, especially if you are a sensitive person. I remember my coach telling me to stop looking at other people’s stuff and thinking that I was less than. She made me realize that I had a gift and that people would seek me out because of this gift. Additionally, if I just focused on my success, then I would start shifting my situation around and I found that she was right. Spend time focusing on what is working right now. This could be that you took the first step in your business and hired a mentor or coach.
3 Create a positive self-talk with yourself every day. How you talk to yourself is everything. If you tell yourself it’s impossible, then you will create beliefs that reaffirm this, and you will attract exactly that belief. When you talk to yourself in ways that are more loving and nurturing, you can start to shift out of the negative emotions that cause stress and the inability to take action. Self-talk can be used to powerfully release your old self-sabotaging ways.
For example, if you are not making money right now in your business, then shift from telling yourself from the belief that it will never happen and that you have to struggle to the belief that I can do this and somehow, some way it will all work out.
P.S. If you are looking to finally breakthrough your issues around self-sabotage and money so that you can have a successful business and attract great paying clients, then check out the Money and Miracles Breakthrough program.
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